Vol.28
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UNLOCKING STRENGTH, WISDOM & MAGICK IN LIFE'S CROSSROADS
Last week’s musing highlighted Aphrodite as part of a product launch that I am in the process of finalising called Psalms of the Goddess. The second Goddess in the Trinity is Hekate and she too has been so special to me and my journey.
While Venus and Aphrodite are well-known for representing beauty, Hekate is often misunderstood due to her more complex and multifaceted nature. In ancient times, when Greek and Roman cultures intersected, there were synchronistic beliefs and practices that merged deities from both pantheons. Hekate, a Greek goddess associated with magic, the moon, and crossroads, was sometimes equated with Diana, the Roman goddess of the moon, hunting, and childbirth. Depending on the eclecticism you choose results in shared characteristics and attributes between the two goddesses in some traditions. However, it's important to note that they are distinct deities with their own unique backgrounds and stories. Hekate possesses a magical essence, often regarded as a priestess, enchantress or witch. She is commonly recognised as the Triple Goddess, encompassing the roles of the Maiden, the Mother, and the Crone within her singular form. The beauty of Hekate is that she is all Woman combined into one.
Hekate, often misunderstood and underestimated, is a beautiful archetype waiting to be discovered. In the vast tapestry of archetypal energies, she emerges as a potent symbol of strength, transformation, and alchemy.
Hekate, often misunderstood and underestimated, is a beautiful archetype waiting to be discovered. In the vast tapestry of archetypal energies, she emerges as a potent symbol of strength, transformation, and alchemy. Often associated with the crossroads, Hekate embodies the power of choice, offering us the wisdom to navigate life's complex decisions. Beyond her portrayal as a "dark" goddess, which has nothing to do with evil and sinister acts but of the night, she is master of the moonlight. Hekate reveals her multifaceted nature as a guardian of the liminal spaces, where change and evolution thrive. She beckons us to embrace our own transformations, to stand strong in the face of adversity, and to harness the alchemical forces within us. Connecting with Hekate can be a profound journey of self-discovery, where we learn to navigate life's transitions and unlock the hidden potential for growth and renewal that resides within us.
In my own life's journey, a profound connection with Hekate has been a source of tremendous strength and transformation. Hekate isn't just a distant figure from ancient mythology; she's a powerful archetype who has played a profound role in my life. Throughout various stages of my life, I've faced trials, uncertainties, and significant transitions. Like many, I sought solace and answers amidst life's complexities. I did not have community elders or wise women to turn to for support. It was during one of these moments, much like any other in my own life, that I first encountered Hekate.
I wasn't wandering through a mystical forest or standing at a literal crossroads under a full moon, but the encounter was just as profound. Hekate's presence revealed itself in the depths of my introspection, during a time when I was grappling with my own life's crossroads and seeking guidance, wondering how and why I had experienced so much pain and hardship I began to envision what a mother, a wise woman would look like to me and the image of Hekate appeared in my mind (unknown at the time) a woman holding torches, holding her hand out for me to embrace wanting to show me the way. Darkness surrounded both of us but she was light, her torch, lit every step we took, revealing so much beauty.
Hekate didn't provide me with easy answers. Instead, she offered thought-provoking questions that ignited a process of self-discovery. She taught me that life, much like those crossroads, is filled with choices and transformations. Through her guidance, I learned to navigate these intricate paths.
As life led me into motherhood, a new set of challenges and responsibilities emerged. Once again, I turned to Hekate, seeking her wisdom and strength. In her nurturing Mother aspect, she embraced me with love and taught me the art of protecting and nurturing my children. Through her guidance, I found solace in the natural cycles of life.
Time passed, and I have entered to move through the Mother archetype and take steps closer to the Wise Woman, the Crone, and all the aspects she embodies. With age comes unique challenges, different to those that marked my youth, including the acceptance of my own mortality. The reality is that mortality allows you to see life for the blessing that it is, you attend more funerals, you have friends or past aquanites that go through life threatening tragedies and you say goodbye to people you loved dearly. Hekate, the wise Crone, became my source of support, reminding me that life's final journey was just another transition, another crossroads. She encouraged me to cherish my memories, embrace my inner wisdom, and find peace in the mysteries beyond. She guided me to make decisions and live my dreams and make something great out of all the ugly.
My connection with Hekate deepened over the years. Through rituals, offerings, and daily reflections, I honoured her presence in my life. I came to understand that Hekate was not merely an external deity but a reflection of my own strength, resilience, and wisdom. In moments of doubt or when facing life's complex choices, I would metaphorically visit that mystical crossroads, invoking Hekate's name. In the quiet moments of reflection, I found clarity and courage, much like the flickering, guiding light of her torches. Hekate's presence became my wellspring of strength, guidance, and inner peace. She taught me that, like her, I possessed the capacity for magick and the ability to navigate life's intricacies with grace.
And so, my life unfolded, guided by the wisdom and essence of Hekate. She became my eternal companion and a wellspring of empowerment. Through our profound connection, I discovered that her essence resided within me, empowering me to confront life's challenges with unwavering strength and grace. Hekate to me is the archetype of pure transformation and guidance.
Hekate, the Triple Goddess, embodies the power of choice, offering us the wisdom to navigate life's complex decisions.
A decade ago, I found myself in a serendipitous situation, attending a training led by Miranda Gray, the renowned author of "The Red Moon" and other transformative works. This training would pave the way for me to become a Moon Mother Practitioner, specialising in working with the sacred energy of the moon to support the inner healing and nurture of women's wombs. This hands-on approach involved womb healings and clearings, a practice I wholeheartedly embraced.
For several years, I diligently offered these services, often in conjunction with therapy sessions for women dealing with a spectrum of challenges, including pregnancy loss and sexual trauma. I had long held the belief that true healing wasn't confined to conversations in sterile, clinical settings. Instead, I saw the importance of involving the body, connecting with the elements, and grounding ourselves in the Earth's energy.
This path not only facilitated profound transformations in the lives of those I worked with but also triggered a personal metamorphosis within me. It allowed me to tap into my own feminine, creative essence, shifting my approach from one characterised by masculine attributes to a more graceful and loving demeanour. Most importantly, it led me to forge connections with women that transcended the toxic patterns of jealousy, manipulation, and gossip that can often plague female relationships.
My pre-existing connection with the moon deepened through this practice, allowing me to perceive how intimately it was linked to my own womb's rhythms. This connection empowered me to understand and harmonise with my monthly cycles, ultimately granting me mastery over my own body and its natural rhythms. This journey, an exquisite extension of my work with the goddess, was a testament to the transformative power of embracing the sacred feminine within and around us.
The synchronicities that unfolded in my life always seemed to align with a call, a prayer, or a meditative journey alongside Hekate. My journey with Hekate has been a profound and transformative one. She has been my guide, my companion, and my source of strength through life's many crossroads. Through her, I've discovered the magick within myself, learned to embrace the different phases of life, and found the courage to navigate its complexities. As I continue to walk this path, I am reminded that Hekate's essence resides within me, empowering me to face each day with grace and unwavering strength. Her wisdom continues to illuminate my path, and I am eternally grateful for the deep connection we share.
There is magick everywhere if we simply choose to see it. I might go so far as to say that it is a desire that we long for deeply, hence the popularity of films like Harry Potter: we long for the possibility of bringing the mystical into the mundane to make our lives interesting. We have the opportunity to do that with the Goddesses, with Hekate. She encourages that connection into the unseen and the realms beyond what we can see with our senses, shapeshifting meaning and reality. I am excited for you to discover and connect with Hekate further in your journey with Psalms of the Goddess.
Hekate, the alchemist of the soul,
With her, we discover our truest goal.
Through trials and fire, we're transformed within,
In her sacred presence, we begin again.
- Brooke
So much love,
Brooke x
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